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Friday, August 21, 2009

Movers and Shakers

I’ve had a very pluralistic summer. I met new people, went new places and did new things. As the summer draws to a close it is time to draw some conclusions and let my mother know that I’ve been gainfully occupied.

First of all, there is my family. We celebrated simchos, visited certain relatives, and went on numerous day trips. We rode the Big Bad Wolf and made Play Dough and learned to ride a two wheeler. We tried to catch up on a year’s worth of projects and prepared for the upcoming school-year.  We picnicked and played and spent hours and hours together.

Beyond family, there was camp. We had great counselers and rabbeim, including myself. We invented and executive an innovative Os Yomi program focusing on one letter each day and its’ attendant lessons. We used Mysteries of the Aleph Bet as a text and hope to make the curriculum available one day soon.

And then there was everything else:

Last night, for example, I was given a handwritten notebook listing all of the construction equipment in downtown Norfolk. The meticulous notes included operators, manufacturers, license numbers, serial numbers and countries of origin. I become aware for the first time of the advantages of steel wheels vs. metal ones and the importance of air-conditioned cabs.

I have no idea why I was privileged to receive this information. It was given to me by a young man who spent all day gathering it and at times chased trucks by bike to ensure that he got the serial number accurately. I know that if Hashem sent me this information on Rosh Chodesh Elul it was with a specific purpose in mind, if only to test my patience.

I spoke with a friend (a more mainstream fellow) a couple of weeks ago. He was in town to take pictures of the nuclear reactors aboard aircraft carriers. His company is developing a program to simulate the carrier’s nuclear plants and train military engineers. He has a very limited audience for his program since the United States only has eight carriers with those particular controls and they won’t be building any more. The simulator is classified, so it will be limited to a handful of engineers training for emergency situations that will probably never take place.

I guess the point is that our autonomy, infrastructure and security are made possible by some powerful movers and shakers that we simply do not think about.

Over the summer I learned with Yungeleit in Vizhnitz, Baalebatim in Flatbush and Young Working Guys in Rabbi Cynamon’s chabura. I spent time with Reb Nota Greenblatt, Rav Shlomo Brevda, and R’ Uri Zohar. I took a Torah Umesorah course with a group of Lubavitchers and I gave a shiur on Maharal to a chabura of Litvaks. I welcomed one hundred people to Norfolk and was (sort of) welcomed by hundreds of people in other communities. I was in touch with rabbis who left Norfolk to become lawyers and with lawyers who came to Norfolk to become rabbis. I had my license suspended and was summoned to serve on a Jury. I buried an older woman with frum grandchildren and I visited a hospitalized six year old with unaffiliated parents.  I ended up (accidentally) at a frum singles event and (separately) locked in a home with an archivist from the Philadelphia Historic Society. I bought Lipa Schmeltzer’s new Non-stop CD and downloaded ancient shmuzen from Rav Gifter Zatzal. I read the memoirs of Rabbi Shlomo Lorentz and the autobiography of Reb Moshe Mendelowitz.  I reread the Pulichever saga and Permission to Believe. I even read Skyscrapers and Innocent Deception. I learned Shvil Hazahav on how to get wealthy and was told by a millionaire that it isn’t important. I met old friends and current Rosh Yeshivas. I reviewed the end of Bava Metzia and the beginning of Ahavas Chesed.

On the secular front, I read the fictional biography of David Ponder, the anthology on the future by Mike Wallace, and a review on the Britannica by A.J. Jacobs. I spent less time than ever on the internet and more time than ever lifting weights. I still have outstanding invitations to ride a Harley and go fishing.

I’ve come to the conclusion that, despite current events, the world is not such a bad place after all. We don’t get along and usually aren’t aware of each other’s existence, but we are inevitably interconnected. We have the ability to move each other and to shake each other up.

Close family and unique friends; The M-Series Bobcat and the USS Ronald Reagan; Rabbonim and rabble-rousers; Septuagenarians and six-year-old boys; Williamsburg, NY and Williamsburg, VA – they are all movers and shakers.

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Meet Rabbi Sender Haber

Rabbi Sender Haber divided his youth between Buffalo, NY and Melbourne, Australia. He studied at several Yeshivos including The Mir in Yerushalayim and Bais Medrash Gavoha in Lakewood. In 2001 Rabbi Haber and his wife Chamie (of Toronto and Monsey) moved to Norfolk Virginia as founding members of the Norfolk Area Community Kollel. Known to some as the "Interimer", He has served as both Interim Rabbi and Interim Principal for the Norfolk community. Today Rabbi Haber is a teacher at the Toras Chaim elementary school in Portsmouth, VA. He is also the Assistant Rabbi at Congregation Bnai Israel in Norfolk where he teaches the Daf Yomi, fills in when the Rabbi is out of town and generally tries to make himself useful. Chamie teaches in the Toras Chaim early childhood program and is involved in many community projects.

Sender and Chamie seek not only to teach, but to learn from all people regardless of the color of their shoes or the length of their hair.

Involved with Torahlab since before its inception, Sender is the son of Torahlab founder and president Rabbi Yaacov Haber. He has contributed to to several TorahLab projects and uses TorahLab materials in his learning and teaching.

Sender and Chamie have three wonderful children, Minna, Moshe and Eliezer.

Rabbi Haber can be contacted at senderhaber@gmail.com