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Friday, June 03, 2011

Getting the Hint

In Parshas Nasso each one of the Nesi’im (Tribal leaders) had a chance to participate in the inauguration of the Mishkan. Each day another Nasi would be bring the sacrifice, and each day the Nasi’s sacrifice would mimic the sacrifice of the Nasi before him.

A cursory look into the Midrash Rabbah shows us that the sacrifices were not identical at all. Each nasi had his own unique and independent thoughts in mind when he made his offering. Each brought the same silver, the same animals and the same incense, but each sacrifice was totally different.

Tonight I had the privilege of hearing a talk from Rabbi Shabsi Werther. Rabbi Werther used to be my principal and he put a lot of effort into training me as a teacher. I was friendly with his son Sholom Benayahu and even spoke at his Bar Mitzvah where he made a Siyum on a large portion of Mishnayos. Unfortunately, Sholom died nineteen months ago as a result of a hit and run accident.

Our local institutions began a program in memory of Shalom. Every Thursday night, boys from the elementary school get together with boys from the high school and learn Mishnayos in Shalom’s memory. There are prizes and treats, but one of the greatest treats is Rabbi Werther’s yearly visit to address the boys and thank them.

Rabbi Werther spoke about how each and every Jew is hinted to in the Torah. Rabbi Werther has found dozens of hints to his son Shalom’s life in the Torah and he made the point that none of us have a right to feel insignificant or unimportant. Each and every one of us is a piece of Hashem’s plan and each of us has something unique to offer. There is a purpose to every life and it can be found in the Torah.

What a beautiful thought to hear from a parent who lost his child. Every child is special. Every person is unique. Rather than wallow in grief, Rabbi Werther sees the purpose of his son’s tragically short life in every piece of Torah he learns.

Where can we be found?

Rabbi Werther’s new book: Zayis Ra’anan: The Gift of the Fresh Olive, can be found at“>http://www2.xlibris.com/books/webimages/wd/99021/index.html"> http://www2.xlibris.com/books/webimages/wd/99021/index.html

A previous article on Sholom can be found at http://www.torahlab.org/outoftheloop/the_grandest_finale/

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Meet Rabbi Sender Haber

Rabbi Sender Haber divided his youth between Buffalo, NY and Melbourne, Australia. He studied at several Yeshivos including The Mir in Yerushalayim and Bais Medrash Gavoha in Lakewood. In 2001 Rabbi Haber and his wife Chamie (of Toronto and Monsey) moved to Norfolk Virginia as founding members of the Norfolk Area Community Kollel. Known to some as the "Interimer", He has served as both Interim Rabbi and Interim Principal for the Norfolk community. Today Rabbi Haber is a teacher at the Toras Chaim elementary school in Portsmouth, VA. He is also the Assistant Rabbi at Congregation Bnai Israel in Norfolk where he teaches the Daf Yomi, fills in when the Rabbi is out of town and generally tries to make himself useful. Chamie teaches in the Toras Chaim early childhood program and is involved in many community projects.

Sender and Chamie seek not only to teach, but to learn from all people regardless of the color of their shoes or the length of their hair.

Involved with Torahlab since before its inception, Sender is the son of Torahlab founder and president Rabbi Yaacov Haber. He has contributed to to several TorahLab projects and uses TorahLab materials in his learning and teaching.

Sender and Chamie have three wonderful children, Minna, Moshe and Eliezer.

Rabbi Haber can be contacted at senderhaber@gmail.com