Monday, June 29, 2009
Dipping Your Dishes
The right way to Tovel your dishes and pots
We are obligated to immerse all metal, lead or glass dishes that were purchased or received from a non-Jew. This is inferred from Bamidbar 31:23 where the Jewish people were instructed to dip the dishes they had taken from the spoils of the war with Midyan in a Mikvah.
The Mikvah that is to be used for keilim (vessels) has to be a fully kosher Mikvah. An ocean, or any body of water that is spring fed, may also be used. If it is rain fed then it must be still (calm) waters.
The tevilah can be performed by any Jewish adult or a Jewish child being watched by a Jewish Adult. A non Jew may assist the Jew in Toveling, provided that a Jew is supervising him and is toveling simultaneously and made the blessing for both of them.
The blessing (Asher Kidshonu B’mitzvosav Vtzivanu Al Tvilas Keli) should be made prior to the immersion. If one is Toveling several items he says Al Tevilas Keilim.
The Tevilah may be done anytime other than Shabbos and Yom Tov.
The dish must be fully immersed, both inside and out, including the handles and any permanently attached parts. Therefore one should let go of the item while it is underwater for a moment, hold it very loosely, or wet ones hands before immersing the vessel. Many Mikvaos provide an appropriate basket that one can put the utensils into and they will get fully covered.
Electric appliances (such as an urn) should be immersed up to the beginning of the electric housing, provided that the entire portion of the appliance that comes into contact with the food is under water. (Igros Moshe YD 1:57).
One is only obligated to immerse utensils that the owner is planning on using for food. Therefore a shopkeeper does not have to Tovel his inventory, indeed, even if he does so it won’t help for the customer. So if one is purchasing items in a store with a Mikvah, they should first purchase the item and then Tovel it.
Dishes that are rented or borrowed from a non Jew do not require Tevilah.
One who reuses bottles that were specifically designed for the product that they were sold with such as Snapple or whiskey bottles does not need to Tovel them. With metal containers, it’s recommended to immerse them without a Bracha. (Igros Moshe YD 2:40,137)
A utensil that exclusively does a preliminary act with the food, and even after being used the food will require more processing should be immersed without a Bracha. Therefore a coffee grinder should be Toveled without a bracha because the grounds need to be cooked before they become edible.
A meat thermometer does not need Tevilah
China, even when glazed does not need Tevilah. Pyrex, Duralex and the like do.
Non metallic utensils that can not be identified as having glass as a composite material do not need Tevilah. Some say that Corelle and Corning are included in this. Many recommend Toveling them without a Bracha.
Stickers labels and the like must be removed. If there is a very small amount of residue, and he wouldn’t ordinarily mind it being there, he need not be concerned.
Disposable dishes such as aluminum pans that are intended for one time use are not considered keilim and do not require Tevilah even if they are reused several times. If they are of such durability that they could be used on a permanent basis, they would require Tevilah before the first use. This would apply even if your intention is to dispose of the pan after one use because of its low cost.
A Toaster (that is used exclusively to toast bread) does not require Tevilah. (Igros Moshe YD 3:24)
When selling one’s Chametz one should be careful not to sell their actual dishes rather they should sell the Chametz absorbed in the dishes. If he sold the actual dishes he would have to Tovel them according to many Poskim.
Many are of the opinion that a convert to Judaism must Tovel all their dishes without a blessing.
Utensils that require koshering and Tevilah should be koshered first.
In extenuating circumstances such as on Shabbos one may gift the utensils to a non Jew and then borrow them back to avoid the obligation to Tovel. This should only be done with rabbinic guidance.
UPDATE 7/1/2009 See the comments for more about stores and gifts
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Thursday, June 25, 2009
Segulahs and Other Cool Parlor Tricks
R’ Josh Waxman over at parshablog has written an excellent article articulating very clearly the most serious problem with many modern day well publicized segulahs. This applies even to reputable Gemara based segulahs. The tricks of dubious origins have the additional problems of Darkei Emori and stuff like that. Here’s the link.
Enjoy!
Thanks to Rabbi Fink for the HT
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Thursday, June 18, 2009
The Wrap – Putting On Your Tallis
A common situation. You’re standing in Shul behind an overly exuberant new Chosson, who after checking out his reflection in his shiny new Tallis bag, zips it open, pulls out his Tallis, and proceeds to whirl it around his head like a chicken at kaparos, giving everyone in a six foot radius Tzitzis lashes in the process.
The step by step tutorial:
- Remove the Tallis from the bag and separate the Tzitzis strings from one another.
- Check to see that all the Tzitzis are kosher.
- Fully unfold the Tallis and look at the Tzitzis.
- Make the Bracha
- Immediately proceed with the atifah. (More about that soon).
The bracha that we make on a Tallis is “lehisataif ba’tzitzis” to wrap with Tzitzis. What would be considered ‘wrapping’? The Tur (OC 8) records a dispute.
The Gaonim understand this to mean an “atifas yishmaelim” an Arab style wrap. The Gemara (Moed Katan 24) explains that this requires covering ones entire head and face in addition to their body.
The Itur says that only a normal body wrap is required.
The Halacha is like the Itur, although one should also cover their head. The common Minhag, as recommended by the various Poskim is to include the Gaonim’s shita as well.
There is no one right way to do an atifah with a Tallis. Here are several, I’d love to hear about other variations as well.
The Mishna Berura way
The Mishna Berura recommends the following: Have the Tallis draped over your back and head with the top of the Tallis draping over to your mouth level. Gather all four Tzitzis and flip them over your left shoulder, all the while being careful that the Tallis is covering your shoulders. Hold for 2 full seconds and release.
The problem many have with this method is, if the Tallis is covering your eyes, then that can’t be considered an atifah. [Several of the methods below avert this problem]. Rabbi Blumenkrantz ZT”L explained that the Mishna Berura means that you cover your face loosely, in a way that you can still see out.
The Sephardic way:
The Ben Ish Chai describes the procedure as follows: Put on the Tallis like a scarf (preferably whilst covering your head). Take the two right Tzitzis and throw them over your left shoulder covering the bottom part of your face in the process. Hold for two seconds, then throw the two on the right side over the left shoulder and hold all four for two seconds. Release and immediately drape the Tallis over your back.
The Lithuanian/Yekke way
The Minhag of the Lithuanian and German Jews was to put the Tallis on normally with their head covered and pull it slightly from the sides to cover their faces.
The Gra/ Chazon Ish way
The Vilna Gaon in Maaseh Rav writes that one need not do an Atifas Yishamaelim, just put on the Tallis and cover your head in the normal manner. The Chazon Ish added that covering your eyes may constitute a hefsek in the atifah and should not be done.
The Rav Moshe Feinstein way
Rav Moshe would put on his Tallis regularly and then pull the right side over his left shoulder covering to bottom of his face.
The minhag is to always keep the top of the Tallis on top and not to use it upside down, therefore we sew an Atarah on the top of the Tallis to signify ‘this way up’. The Arizal was not careful about this, perhaps this is the reason that Chabad Talliesim don’t have an Atarah.
Many have a custom to beautify their Tallis with a silver Atarah. The Aruch Hashulchan felt that this was a fallacy because it made it seem as if the main part of the Tallis is the part that covers the head whereas in truth the focus should be on the part that covers the body.
All agree that it is of primary importance that the Tallis covers the entire body, and not have it draped over the shoulders.
It goes without saying that one should follow their own Minhag.
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Friday, June 05, 2009
Fingernail Fun Facts
We Orthodox Jews tend to get the heebee jeebies when it comes to nails (the ones that grow on fingers and toes, not the ones that are intentionally hit with a hammer).
What is the background of this? A brief history:
The Gemara (Moed Katan 18a, Niddah 17a) says that there are three types of nail cutters – righteous, pious and evil. The righteous bury their nails, the pious burn them and the evil people just throw them down. The Gemara goes on to explain that the problem with the nails being in a public place is that a pregnant woman may step on them.
So what’s the big deal if a pregnant woman steps on nails? The Ran offers two explanations; her revulsion upon seeing them may cause her to miscarry, and “keshafim”, or evil spirits, are associated with nails. (We’ll get back to that).
The Pri Megadim (OC 260) offers the following:
Adam HaRishon was created covered by nail like material over his skin. After the sin it was removed, remaining only on his fingers and toes. Since Woman is generally blamed for the original sin, there is therefore a danger for pregnant women to step on finger and toe nails.
The Gemara (Ibid) qualifies this law by saying that if the nails are moved there is no danger. Therefore in a Beis Medrash or other place where women are not common one doesn’t have to worry, even if they will be swept up and placed outside. The Elya Raba writes that perhaps they have to be moved to an entirely different room.
Based on the above it would be prudent for a pregnant woman to avoid a nail salon.
Rav Steinman writes that he asked the Chazon Ish how come we don’t see women miscarrying due to a lack of diligence and knowledge of these laws? The Chazon Ish replied that as we are living in a time of Hester Panim there is ‘static’ between us and the spiritual powers associated with these dangers and there is therefore less of a risk.
Some other rules of (thumb)nails:
- Not to cut on Thursday because they will sprout (presumably this means noticeably) on Shabbos.
- Not to cut finger and toe nails on the same day (Mogen Avrohom 260). (Shulchon Hatahor recommends averting this problem by leaving one toenail uncut).
- Only cut fingernails Erev Shabbos and Yom Tov (Ibid).
- Based on the above the Mogen Avrohom recommends cutting toenails on Thursday and fingernails on Friday.
- Not to cut nails on Rosh Chodesh (R’ Yehuda Hachassid quoted in Ba’er Haitiv OC 260).
- The Rema says not to cut fingernails in order. The order he gives is 42531 for the left hand and 24135 for the right. The Arizal laughed at this practice and the Maharam Miruttenberg was not particular about this. The Mogen Avrohom recommends being stringent. There are various opinions as to which hand to cut first, the Rema seems to favor the left. (See Pri Megadim and Ashel Avrohom Mibutshetsh).All this does not apply to toenails. (Chazon Ish).
The Aruch Hashulchan (OC 260:6) writes that all of the above are not halachic obligations rather one who is careful should be, and one who is not doesn’t have to start.
Shabbos
There is a definite preference for one to cut their fingernails on Friday in honor of Shabbos. It is a matter of dispute as to when is the correct time to do this, some say specifically in the morning, others choose the afternoon. Some say before the Mikvah, others say after.
Netilas Yadayim and Tevilah
Dirt on hands is considered a chatzitzah, or separation, for ritual hand washing and would have to be removed before washing for bread. The same applies for dirt under nails, but only on the portion of the nail that extends beyond the finger. For immersion in a Mikvah we are more stringent and require that the nail be completely clean, therefore we cut them for tevilah.
Klipos
As mentioned, there are evil spirits associated with nails. Although I have absolutely no understanding of this, it seems that the part of the nail that extends beyond the finger contains little bad guys and the part that is near the skin contains the really good guys.
Havdalah
The Rema (OC 298:3) quotes the Zohar that when one makes the blessing on the candles during Havdalah on Motzai Shabbos one should look at the nails of their right hand with the hand curled inward and the thumb tucked away out of sight.
The Mishna Berura explains that one has to have enough benefit from the light to differentiate between different coins. We ascertain this by differentiating between the nail and the finger which are of similar color. He adds that nails are considered a sign of blessing because they are constantly growing. I’m not sure why we avoid the thumb, if anyone knows please let me know.
Chol Hamoed
It is forbidden to cut nails on Chol Hamoed under ordinary circumstances unless they were cut on Erev Yom Tov or for a mitzvah (e.g. Mikvah).
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Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Eating Dairy on Shavous (or Who Moved my Cheesecake)
Eating Dairy on Shavous
The Rema cites a minhag to eat a Milchig meal on the first day of Shavous. There are many reasons given for this custom, The Rema himself suggests (as explained by the Mishna Berura) that just as on Pesach we have two foods to remember the Korbanos brought on Pesach so too on Shavous in remembrance of the two loaves that were brought on Shavous we have a dairy meal immediately followed by a meat meal, each requiring its own loaf of bread.
It would seem from the Rema that:
- Having cheesecake at Kiddush isn’t good enough, it has to be a meal containing bread
- One should not have a Dairy meal in lieu of a meat meal; rather there should be an additional dairy meal.
Aside from the Rema’s reasoning, this would seem so because one should have meat at all the meals on Yom Tov, including Shavous.
The Magen Avraham rules that one doesn’t need to say Birkas Hamazon between the milk and the meat, and can have them in one meal, but should change the tablecloth or placemats and wipe and rinse his mouth. Indeed, it is problematic to say Birkas Hamazon only in order to have meat. (YD 89 Rema).
The opinion of the Zohar as quoted by the Beis Yosef is that one should never have meat and milk in the same meal, thereby placing one in a difficult situation. He can’t bentsh and make it a separate meal just in order to have meat, but he can’t have milk and meat in the same meal. The Darkei Teshuva therefore recommends having milchig without bread at Kiddush, waiting an hour and then washing for bread. This would work according to all the other reasons to have Dairy, but not according to the Rema who requires bread.
The Mishna Berura paskens like the Magen Avrohom that one may have the milk and then the meat in the same meal. This would definitely satisfy the Rema. The Pri Migadim (Ibid) says that according to those who require a separate meal in accordance with the Zohar, On Shavous one would be permitted to say Birkas Hamazon in order to eat dairy.
If he had ‘hard cheese’ then he would have to say Birkas Hamazon and wait six hours. (six hours for the purpose of this article is whatever one normally waits between meat and dairy). There are differing definitions as to what hard cheese is; Parmesan is a definite suspect.
UPDATE for more on cheese in halacha and what constitutes hard cheese, there is an excellent article on Hirhurim on the topic from Rabbi Gordimer of the OU
The Kol Bo quotes a minhag to have the Dairy meal in the afternoon and that one may be lenient about the waiting period after meat. The conclusion of the later Poskim is not to rely on this. (See the Noam Elimelech, Mishpatim on Lo Sevashel gedi bchalev imo).
Indeed, the Mishna Berura, quoting the Pri Megadim writes that one should be careful on Shavous to keep all the laws of mixing milk and meat as elucidated in Yoreh Deah, and not to be ‘yotze sechara bhefsedah’, supplant the gain (of eating dairy) with the loss (of not keeping the Halacha properly).
As noted, the Rema writes the custom is only applicable on the first day of Shavous. This is indeed the common minhag, although the Kaf Hachaim brings an opinion that it applies to the second day as well.
Obviously, many have differing minhagim as to when to eat dairy, and I am not advocating switching Minhagim.
You can, of course, order your cheesecakes in Israel from Your Man In Jerusalem